Bills Suck…

I am a coward.

I know this.

I should answer the phone. When it rings. And the caller ID says ‘toll free call’ or ‘unknown name’. And I know it’s not a salesman calling with term life insurance rates or one of those police groups wanting a donation. I know who it is. And I should answer. But I can’t. I can’t talk to them. They don’t want to hear what I have to tell them. Everybody’s struggling, but we’re in pretty deep here.

Couldn't even afford to buy this clipart. (Sorry, iStockphoto.)

The literature all says they want to work it out with you. They want to find a way to help you and still get their money.

My experience has been different. They just want their money. They don’t really give a crap if you don’t have it. That’s not their problem.

So I keep not answering the phone. Maybe I’ll get that thing disconnected.

Yeah. Maybe that’s the answer…

12 Responses to “Bills Suck…”

  1. Ganesha Says:

    I hear ya. Our student loan collectors are calling our NEIGHBORS! D:<
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    Patrick D. Reply:

    I hope that’s not MOHELA.

  2. Christina Reilly Says:

    Hang in there pal-e-o pal!

  3. Jenn Says:

    I feel your pain. :/

  4. psychospazmom Says:

    I dont even want to talk about it. At least you have a guaranteed income. sigh. It will get better…..it will get better…..it HAS to get better…….
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    Patrick D. Reply:

    In this economy, nothing is guaranteed.

  5. BeccA's Buzz Says:

    I recently got a phone call on my cell phone from a collector looking for my brother!!! We don’t even live in the same house, hello!!!
    BeccA’s Buzz recently posted…Dont go there!

    Patrick D. Reply:

    The relatives thing I can almost see. But calling someone’s neighbors just crosses a line where I think violence toward the creditor could be justified.

  6. BeccA's Buzz Says:

    By the way, the section above called “You might also like:” has the pic of the boys and then next is the pick of the low cut shirt with boobs hanging out…and just looking at it from here, kinda looks like Steak is trying to look over there LOLOLOL Check it out…
    BeccA’s Buzz recently posted…Dont go there!

    Patrick D. Reply:

    Actually, Steak is more of a butt man. Like father, like son.

  7. jami Says:

    I have a friend who keeps getting calls for a man with the same name (but different age, hometown, ssn, etc.) as her husband. One time when she explained that yes, her husband is named … but not the same one, that one lives in …. the bill collector asked her why she didn’t just help them find the other guy. Um, cause that’s YOUR job.
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  8. EDW Says:

    I have a friend who manages collections. She swears that if you ask for a manager (her) she is really nice. Mostly, bc people yell at her and her reps all day long. She cuts deals. All the time. Also, she’s a single mom and she struggles so I think she gets it. There are some good people doing that work!